Abs -
this link
Welcome to Foundation for Human Enrichment
should get you to the page that talks about all that is covered in SE. Also, there is a book "Waking the Tiger" that Peter Levine wrote. It's pretty much the introductory book to read regarding this type of work. Robert Scaer, MD also has written a lot of books and articles about the science behind this. I think that the book Craving Ecstacy helped me understand myself and my addict better.
I just got back from a meeting and it was mentioned that people that think like this (anons and users) need meetings to recalibrate their brains. It sures makes a lot of sense to me.
Have a good one!