Originally Posted by
Stubborn1 
It's still so wierd to say that I'm in recovery for his alcoholism. I read posts here where children are involved and even some that there are not and see the sickness.
I know I will never EVER go back to the way things were. It was the very pit of hell.
I just wanted to share.
I'm just beginning to realize that in order to help my ABF I have to be good to myself and my unborn. That I need recovery because of my co-dependency.
I know every situation is different, but I just wanted to say tha tI respected your decision to separate from your AH before your children got too old.
I am struggling with whether to stay or go, and my baby is still in utero.
Your post gave me courage, and hope for a life away from all this sorrow (and the PIT OF HELL) I felt I knew exactly what you meant by that. I feel like I'm in a nightmare and can't wake up.
Thanks again...
K