I agree with the above. My XABF found another girlfriend (victim) soon after I left. When he saw me again, and I was working, had money and a car, all of a sudden he wanted me back...because he wanted to use me to get more crack.
I know it hurts, but in time, you will see he did you a favor. My self-esteem took a heavy blow...not only from MY addiction, but being "in love" with an addict. I started taking baby steps, and I'm still a work in progress, but I no longer worry about why he didn't love me like he said he did. He didn't love me because he only loves crack and he will always find someone else to give him what he wants...for a while.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy