I think it's a compliment too. Let me see, do I have my black belt in Al-Anon?
Before we earn our black belt, we need to learn how to "learn"...to listen to those who went before us and trust that we too can have what they have.
We need to learn self-discipline, to keep our balance at all times and to know that we will work through the pain and have better days ahead. We learn not to let our stumbling and failures become who we are, but instead let them become lessons that help us move forward with more confidence.
We need to be aware of our surroundings, on guard against triggers and old ploys, and remain well footed on our path or recovery.
We learn strength, endurance and grace and how to keep our minds and body filled with positive energy.
And we learn how to use our recovery to maintain our own well being without appearing a threat to anyone else.
Yup, I think I'd like my black belt too.
