Oh Rozied, I am sorry your so worried about your son. But the good thing is he is in jail and that is better then being on the street as far as wondering what he is doing.
Do you think he is punishing you because you didn't send him the money for the sneakers he wanted?
He will get in touch with you when he wants to and nothing you do is going to change that. So get busy with a hobbie so everytime you think about him you start creating something. Lol It may help it may not but you have to try. ((((HUGS)))))