Hi Rozied, well it sounds like he has a new source now, the ex. At least it isn't you.
My son is out of jail now. I have a 3 yr order of protection against him. His girlfriend picked up his clothes last week. She called yesterday asking for his radio, t.v., and scooter, etc....I heard him in the background. I asked her not to call me where I could hear his voice. She said ok.
I felt some guilt at first because he may take this as rejection and he may feel rejected by me now. I stood by him through thick and thin, while his father rejected him from birth basically. He did pay child support though. He was the best dressed poor child because all his support went to him and his needs. His support has now stopped, so I hope he has a job when he needs new shoes.
Love and huggs Rozied, I know it's not easy some days.
NH7