ocoa. Is it possible for me to have ocoa, but not have an alcoholic parent???
My mom's dad was an A, and out of 11 kids atleast 8 of them became an A. My mom didnt though.
I do see the opposite of my mom, she is a codie. I think living with the alcoholic parent, she learned the behaviors of a co-dependent.
According to my mom, my dad was abusive with her physically, and I do remember fighting all the time, name calling, feeling nervous, feeling the need to please and to be recognized. I dont even like thinking about it.
I just read the characteristics of ocoa and wow!!!!
I wonder why not one of the counselors ever suggested this.
Reading the characteristics, has made me want to learn more about what ocoa is. Is there a difference between ocoa and co-dependent? It seems like alot of the traits are the same.
Wow, digging in my closet is pretty scary, but digging in it is the only way to start cleaning it out. I am going to start on a cleaning spree with atleast this one area of the closet. I want to see more results of this messy closet
Thank you splendra reading your post inspired me to read what ocoa is.