(((SS)))))
I am so glad your boy is doing well with his program. I like that saying of his. Its so true.
Resentment for my son's dad is also a tough one. Deep down there is this feeling that he is responsible for my son's addiction and other problems. Although he is an AH in his own right, he isn't responsible for my son's addiction, I know better, yet....
So I work on this area too.
Its easier because I don't have any contact with him.
It must be hard to have your son's dad enjoying all the rewards of a recovering son yet, hasn't really been there when he should have, and is still lacking today..
Is that where the big Resentment festers?
Letting go of Resentments With my Ex, is knowing he is my past, and rejoicing in that. And having compassion for the demons he still faces in his own addiction.
Don't have much more advice. As I said, I am challenged by this one also.
Cathy