Marle, I totaly undrstand your concern. Megan probably thinks it's ok to see him bc he's clean? I don't think she is trying to hurt you. Since they probably don't truley know each other since they were both high most of the time, hopefully they will see they aren't good for each other. But that will have to happen w Megan & her HP's time table What does her sponser say about this? Maybe leave it to Megan, her HP & her sponser?