Good for you C. My mom and I had a falling out and we held our grudge for 20 years. Who says I can't commit to things? She dies this past year and neither of us got the chance to reconcile in person. Earlier in the year I was able to forgive her to myself, but was not ready to speak to her and let her know I had forgiven her. My mistake, she passed before I was ready to make that step. Good for you, build on what you can. I happy so happy for you! :ghug3