Originally Posted by
Shivaya 
I have made contact with an attorney, but have yet to set the appt. I need to do this.
You really do. If he has been researching and planning, it is likely he has or is planning to make some moves that will benefit him. (Such as moving money out of bank accounts, etc.) If you wait until he files to talk to an attorney, your recourses to protect yourself from these kind of things could be limited. I hope he isn't planning on doing anything underhanded, but better safe than sorry.
L