(((((Shivaya)))))
I have always admired your spirit, and your steadfastness with your boundaries.
I mean no disrespect to you or your marriage but when I read the title of your thread I actually smiled and was happy for you! I know it is hard and painful and at times may feel overwhelming - just take it one day at a time-- so much love and energy will be freed up for you once you are not having to deal with this unhealthy relationship.
:praying for your strength and serenity...
B.