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Old 09-05-2008, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Shivaya View Post
Well.......my AH has decided that he wants a divorce!!!
Sounds like God is doing for you what you couldn't or wouldn't do for yourself.

Originally Posted by Shivaya View Post
Well.....I wonder why it always goes back to the drinking????? Maybe because that is the root cause of the demise of our marriage????
yes, that's the outward problem yet, have you looked at your part (why you stayed...)

Originally Posted by Shivaya View Post
I am standing my ground no matter what anybody says (i.e., comments from neighbors telling me that I need to compromise and let my poor husband drink in his own home)!!!! Huh???? I wonder what they'd think if I told them how many times my AH has urinated in places other than the bathroom in our home????
Huh? It doesn't matter what the neighbors (or even yourself) thinks (classic comment! ha)...it matters what you say and do. This is your life, not a dress rehearsal.

Personally, I wouldn't try and discuss the perimeters of the divorce or custody with him as he is an active alcoholic. Just do the right action for YOU and let your lawyer and therapist direct you along the way.

May prayers go your way for strength and guidance.
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