Not to make light of the subject...my A threatened divorce on a weekly basis, two to three times a week. It was always a huge part of his quacking process. I told him to be my guest...but he would have to be the one to file and carry it through. I would not take care of that process too. Needless to say he is still here. I am prepared to follow up if he were to ever follow through, but in the meantime, I am lining up the ducks and will be prepared for what happens when it happens, whether it's my choice or his.
Take care of you and the kids and lean on that HP for support...things have a way of working out for the people around here! I'll keep you in my prayers.