heartshapedgirl

So, from the beginning: My boyfriend's mother used to be a crack and meth addict when he and his siblings were children. Then(after getting off that and getting married), she got a chronic heart condition and was prescribed morphine. She gave my bf some. Then, she told the docs the morphine was too addicting so they switched her to oxycodone. She has been giving him this and he has been doing other drugs since 16. Him and I started dating at the age of 20(he is 21 now and I am almost 21). We began living together. I wanted to try heroin and he told me he had tried it a few times a year before and wanted to do it again. He showed me how to shoot up the oxycodone's and every couple days we started to go to his mother for pills. Then him and I started doing heroin together. His mom wanted to shoot up so we helped her. A few times she gave us money for drugs. We also did some coke with her once. After a few months of doing heroin or oxy's or both everyday I went to rehab and when I was out(after only 8 days!) he went in. I was sober for the 12 days he was there and when he left early the first thing we did was get high. Also, during his time in treatment he told his mom he felt bad and she brought him oxy on family day. After two months of doing it again everyday he went back to rehab and I joined a suboxone maitanence program on June 6, 08. I have been sober ever since. He relapsed again and went to treatment for 2 weeks and then joined an outpatient program and went to meetings everyday. He was also given suboxone for maitenance. Then his mother(who began shooting up pills) showed him the disgusting used needles she was using and wanted clean ones. He wanted something in return and so she gave him 10 pills for a pack of clean needles. He stopped doing the suboxone and started doing the pills. I didn't know about this until the third day of his using when he told me he needed to go back to the hospital. He detoxed there for 2 days. He's back on suboxone. What I am worried to death about is his mother influencing him to use. She has a constant supply to oxycodone and is shooting them up herself. She is a terrible mother obviously and I just don't know how a mother could do this to her son. I don't want him to see her because I know they are used to sneaking drugs to each other but he says he loves his mom even though all he's been put through because of her and he still wants to see her. I want her out of our lives because she will try to use us for needles and she will try to get us to use to make herself feel less lonely. Please help me and my boyfriend!!!! What should we do??? I am so mad and frustrated with this situation and can't seem to find a solution for it!