Originally Posted by
Shivaya 
I tell him that I have a major concern about his ability to parent while he continues to drink....he says....here we go again, it always goes back to the drinking!!!!!
Well.....I wonder why it always goes back to the drinking?????
Get a good attorney. Do you have family/friends who can testify, if necessary, that your husband has been intoxicated in front of the children, had any sort work-related problems due to his drinking, DUI's, work-related problems, etc.?
Yep, here we go again. I've heard that same old blah, blah, blah. It's a bunch of baloney and their way of showing contempt towards their spouse in order to deflect the responsibility they refuse to take.
So if he wants to make a big noise about it "going back to the drinking," let the judicial system decide that it does indeed go back to the drinking!