Lucy, I really like what everyone is saying, especially Chrysallis's take on the future generations benefitting by your love and dedication to Joe. Just imagine, Lucy, when you can possibly find the time, of course, how differently things might have played out for Joe if you weren't there. You are truly an ANGEL, albeit a tired one (LOL!), but the high school years go very fast and your "job" will become less hectic. Your "boys" will always know they can count on you. What a wonderful thing for all of them. Take care, Lucy, and hurray for the return of school!