((((Rozied))))
As usual what Impurrfect said above "Ditto", especially the tennis shoes.
I would't bother to write him back because you know what...he is just going to keep busting your chops one way or another and you don't need it. Write em and rip em up that is the best therapy! Your too angry right now anyway. Go get him the shoes if you feel you must because it is his Birthday but not $50.00.
veryday in everyway your getting better and better or stronger and stronger! Keep it up!