rozied~~I agree with everyone. Don't send him any money. He should see what its like to totally depend on himself. I know its a bad thing but I've told my son if he gets arrested to not even let us know...I'm getting so burned out with all this. I'll be around and wouls support recovery but not the addiction any longer. So hang in there, take care of yourself and the Mr. and try to enjoy life... listen to me!!!! I should listen to myself.. Smiles, Bonnie