Good for you member,
I think you did what any clear headed responsible parent would do. Too bad I can't say the same thing about your AH. You're true to yourself because of your children. He knows how you feel because you've made that perfectly clear! No guess work there! Too bad everyone's not like you when dealing with an alcoholic. You are text book! Congratulations! No matter what happens. No matter which direction he choses there should be no surprise with your reaction. Prayers