Old 08-30-2008, 12:37 PM
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denny57
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Originally Posted by Lizziesd View Post
Today I went to his myspace page to see what he is up to and I shouldn't have.
I've learned to not do things that cause me harm. What will you do next time, instead, when you get the urge? Having a plan helps me.


I see that he is already in a relationship with a girl 8 yrs younger than him.
As my therapist used to remind me at the beginning: IT IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP (emphasis hers LOL)

The alcoholics are not the ones that suffer.
Alcoholics suffer greatly. It's a horrific disease.

He is already happy in love, ready to be a father of two
When I told my friends xAH and I were splitting, many of them told me they had been jealous of the great relationship we seemed to have. Emphasis on the SEEMED.

Al-Anon, individual counseling and other support helped me take the focus off him and put it where it belonged - my own life.

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