Old 08-26-2008, 08:23 AM
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Impurrfect
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(((Marle)))

When I was new to recovery, is when I realized what a codie I was. Mayber, like peaceteach said, Megan is seeing a codie side to herself? I had read about codependence, years ago, thought it applied to me. It wasn't until I got into recovery that I saw how much it influenced my using. Someone elses' actions/words (especially XABF) would get me so confused and stressed, that I'd want to use.

I'm not sure if that's what's going on with Megan, but it might be a part of it. The good news is, with recovery we learn to put our focus on us and less on them. It may take a while, but I think Megan's a smart girl (takes after her mama) and will figure it out.

Hugs and prayers!

Amy
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