Thread: Trying not to get upset
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Old 08-20-2008, 06:18 AM
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WishIWasNormal
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Originally Posted by Chino View Post
Does he have a job?
That is a good question. Some of the most financially controlling men who spend money at the bar then XXXXX about money for food etc. are worthless bums who haven't worked for years while their wives slave away at minimum wage jobs. They're too lazy to earn it but sure know how to spend it.

When I got married, my husband assumed I'd add him to my credit cards, but surprise!! He had to get his own. We also had separate checking accounts and split the bills (including the morgage) right down the middle. It isn't conventional but it saved alot of fighting. We managed to find other things to fight about though.
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