My heart goes out to all you Mom's who have sons in jail. Sons that are also addicted.
The aggravating part for me is my ex was a Compulsive Gambler. So I found out about addictions at a young age. I saw what my ex MIL did to my ex husband by bailing him out & I TOLD BOTH MY SONS GROWING UP IF THEY EVER GOT IN TROUBLE WITH THE LAW, I WOULD NOT BAIL THEM OUT & I MEANT IT!!!
So what did my parents do the 1st time he got arrested??? Lied to me & bailed him out.
I swear if not for my parents I believe my son would have reached his bottom years ago.