i found a receipt once where my AS not-of-age son had used his debit card to buy booze...that receipt had his name on it...
There is no end to enablers in this world we live in. what makes a person with addiction want to change comes from within in - not because they ran out of enablers. Having said that, we as family play a pivotal role in either helping the addiction survive or helping it die... family members are a particularly, singularly powerful set of people in the addict's life.
I pray that we all today, as family members, interact with our addicted loved ones in a way that causes their addiction to die a little bit today.