Rozied, Just sending some hugs your way. On Megan's last day at the recovery house the therapist (who is a recovering alcoholic) tried to tell the women that they are responsible if one of the women leaves and relapses. That it is up to them to stop her. My daughter stood up for herself and said that the only person she is responsible for is herself and her recovery. Remember all you are responsible for is your own side of the street. Marle