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littlebird77 WOW - I'm going through the SAME thing right now! My issue is as if he thinks that he can get the job he wants... Times are tough, I am not working at a job I really worship, but it's a job.... I get angry as if they are so wonderful and all-knowing that they are better then a job at a fast food resturant. But you know something? They have a job, they have resposibilities, and they really deal with a lot of crap... Not everyone gets a job at a fastfood place. You have to work, you have to be in on time just like anyother job... I just hate the way they think they are better at times.
yeah, my bf keeps saying he doesn't want to work this one or that one cause the pay is too low, or he doesn't want to work at a certain place cause he wants a career. Well he had 2 VERY good jobs and screwed himself on both. The first one was awesome and they sent he to re-hab when he needed help, and he relapsed before he was to go back on the active list and then the last one that he just got fired from he loved, but he was stealing and got caught. Then had the nerve to go back a week later in the early am and they had him on video in the parking lot, so now they are going to press charges because he went back to steal from them again.
I have a lot of anger and rage issues right now. I thought I could handle this, but I think he needs to figure it out on his own. I deserve to have a normal healthy relationship. I want to be taken out, and given flowers once in awhile , or even get back what I give to someone. I hate him so much sometimes for all the things he has done to me and his family and most of all his son. He has not only ruined his own life, but everyone else around him. I thought it would be ok if he stayed at my house while he tries to pick up the pieces, because it really does seem like he wants to this time, but all the horrible things that have happened have taken their toll. He will be homeless, on the street if I tell him to go, because he is putting in a serious effort, I feel like he should have a chance, but what is that going to cost me in the end? It might be time for me to just let it all go. I am sooooo emotional today