(((Alaia)))
When I relapsed, my dad covered several debts that I had run up in a week...on the condition that I get a job QUICK!!! I had lost my job, at a restaurant, but my boss said I could work in another restaurant in our chain.
I worked with my dad for several weeks, found out that merchandising was NOT going to pay my bills and pay him back. I tucked my tail, went to another restaurant in our chain and was hired.
My point is, I wasn't given the "luxury" of being picky about jobs. I had the choice to find something/anything to pay him back AND start back paying my own bills...or find another place to live.
Finding a job isn't easy these days, but fast food and places like that are always hiring. He doesn't have to STAY there...he can keep looking for a better job...just like I'm doing right now.
I think it all goes back to boundaries...what are you willing to put up with? Just because he's clean and doing good, doesn't mean he doesn't have to pay the consequences...that's just a part of life.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy