Dear Wife2Kids, Welcome to SR this is a very good place to be when dealing with an addict. Many yrs ago I was married to a compulsive gambler & its just as bad as drugs. After 10yrs of my life, sitting in Gam Anon many nites, 2 kids, a million separations, a divorce, remarriage, finally another divorce I was done. There was no way I could live with it & found that love was not enough & the opposite of love is not hate it is indifference.
Keep coming here. Many more people will be along to answer you. This is definitely a good support system for anyone dealing with an addict.
I am here because of my eldest son.