Sorry you are struggling
Hi drained,
I am pretty new to this recovery stuff but one thing I have learned is my need to set boundaries. I gave my husband some lee way for awhile but I have reached the end of my rope.
I will not tolerate drug use around me and the kids - period. when i told my h a couple of weeks ago I would no longer live this way, he got into treatment. I don't have a plan b or c but I trust myself to figure it out.
Have you thought at all about your "bottom"? It may not be his but could it be yours?
hugs,
Kathy