GwenMarie -- Hope you're feeling better. Have you had a discussion with your daughter about why she did it? I ask because maybe its a good time to discuss peer pressure and how it is important to be able to say no to things when she knows its wrong. I'm not blaming the other girls (I don't know if they pressured her at all). But if your daughter did it to look "cooler" (or whatever the current word is) in their eyes, this would be a good time to talk about it -especially since she is coming up on the teenage years. Sending hugs, all kids make mistakes, the important part is they learn from them.