The sex inventory is an honest look at my attitude and actions - to put the truth down on paper and review it.
If there was harm made - we put the name down for ammends later. Otherwise - we review and come up with an IDEAL to move towards.
A benchmark if you will of our future behavior as revealed to us from a God of our understanding. I find having an ideal and sticking to it - avoids a lot of problems, more than I could even conceive. (Just read the threads where girls are hit on at AA meetings - it also goes both ways). More than once I started things up with girls I met in rehab or AA meetings - recovery became secondary and I had to drink. If I had made it to the sex-inventory and formed an ideal - these problems could have been avoided.
We treat it just like any other problem. Just like the book says.