In my lifetime (I am 42) I have known one person who went from wreckless to what I would call "responsible" drinking. I've known a few that went from extremely wreckless to a bit less wreckless. I couldn't tell you the statistics, but most recovery programs advise abstinence. I just quit smoking, and I cannot imagine ever being able to be a "responsible" smoker.
Dino thought he could go back to "responsible" (lol) crack use. He's not out nearly as often or as much, but he still just lost an apartment over it.
I would think the person who can go from foolish indulgeance to sane use would be a rare bird indeed.
Hugs,
Smoke
[This message has been edited by smoke gets in my eyes (edited April 15, 2002).]