Rozied,
Good for you!
I really hope your parents keep their resolve too. It's hard sometimes not to give in when we get those "I feel sorry" for them, feelings.
I never picked up my sons clothes, they were always shipped to our home, (without my permission) and would appear magically on the front porch.
Here's a funny note. We were cleaning our attic the other day, and donchaknow a box of his clothes was up there, with our address marked on them. He never came here to get them. They now BACK on the front porch and being donated to a charity.
THEY may turn back up at the Salvation Army, and my son may end up buying back his own clothes. How funny is that?
Hugs, and serenity...