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Old 06-30-2008, 08:17 PM
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Whatever the issues, accepting them is first, addressing them is next.

It sounds like you are determined to seek resolution. That's wonderful. Some of us tend to "stuff things down" over time. There is always an effect that can take many different forms in different people. Sometimes multiple effects.

Some (like me) are able to "stuff down" things for many, many years before the beast shows up. I envy those with less tolerance, who deal with this stuff when they are young.

You have great spirit. You have what it takes to become whole again. Let your courage develop. You will find that there are many to share with, no matter what the source of the hurt. True safety is not achieved by avoidance, but by getting rid of that which threatens us. Like any parasite, the demons cannot survive outside of us. Let them go.

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