Ive experienced it too - there is recovery (and life) whether or not the addicts in our life ever stay sober. And I just don't think the God of my understanding wants me to live with uncertainty and misery and abuse and ... and... and.... I found that life is so much more. For a kid from an alcoholic home and one that has alcoholic kids, I have learned that life truly can be beyond my wildest dreams.
Congratulations!
Love in recovery,
Jody Hepler