"My husband snorts 80mg of Oxycontin every week and I worry that he will od and die in my bed and I will wake up and find him dead and my son sleeps with us!!! This is VERY scary to me and I need advice."
What if you wake up and find your son dead? Choosing to stay with an addict who is in full blown addiction is your choice. Remember, he will end up institutionalized, in jail, or dead. Unless he chooses to get clean.
Boundaries are set for you. What do you want in your life? If he is using drugs, what are you going to do. If nothing changes, then nothing changes. Period. Read the sticky what addicts do.