Originally Posted by
BigSis 
DW... the boundaries are not about him at all. The boundaries are about YOU.
What YOU want.
How YOU want to live.
What YOUR day looks like.
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know it is confusing at first when setting and sticking to boundaries...
I first started small...when I saw that I was actually sticking to them, I increased my boundaries and what will happen should they be broken.
Just focus on what YOU want, not what he will do.