Trying and Kind: Thank you for the reminder that we shouldn't shove our opinions down other people's throats!
Blue: I put on my codie hat and tried to tell you what to do. I apologize. You certainly need to make your own decision. And, TryingToFly is absolutely right. If you do decide to go forward and get married, I for one will not be saying "I told you so". You know what is best for you in your life. You know your fiance (we don't). We can only give you our own experiences. And many of us can relate to your story (obviously
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Praying that God gives you guidance.