SJ
I usually try to be gentle in my responses here on SR but I think I need to be more direct in this case.
This will go on as long as you keep playing the game. Both of you must be getting some kind of satisfaction out of it or one of you would stop. She throws out the bait, you bite and she reels you in. When you see that worm dangling in front of you......swim away from the worm! There's a HOOK under there!
I've been in those awkward situations where you wind up in the same place with someone you prefer not to see. Sometimes it is best for both parties to be invisible.
gentle hugs