Originally Posted by
drainedwife 
thanks...the problem is that im the one that is so unhappy!!
Each of us are responsible for our own happiness. If we're in a situation that causes us unhappiness it's up to us to change that. We can't change others so we have to change ourselves. We can leave situations/people behind or go forward accepting them for who or what they are.
If your husband doesn't require a social life and you do, it's up to you to do something about it and that may mean without him.