Originally Posted by
kikidee 
His newest idea is he bought a home breath alcohol machiny-thingy, and he says he is going to do it for me every night twice a night. I told him I'm not comfortable policing him, he says he'll do it on his own initiative. I'm still not crazy about it.
What would be the point of this machine? To police himself or convince you he can be trusted? All you can do right now is continue to learn about alcoholism...read the posts on this site (sticky posts at top are VERY helpful) and learn how you can change YOU. Your AH will have to make decisions regarding his life in his own time. Unfortunately until an A is ready to make changes for themselves, recovery is unlikely to happen or be successful. Not to say all is doom and gloom...just a friendly reminder to look at the part you play and start living life again for YOU.