Welcome-
Alcoholism doesn't usually "go away" unless the person seriously wants to do the work.
Unless their life becomes unmanageable, little changes.
Even if he doesn't want to change-now, you can go to Al-anon and make changes for
yourself. If you work the program of al-anon and stick with it, there is possibility for your own transformation in ways you can't imagine now...and this can happen no matter what your husband is doing. However, when one member of a family is in recovery, often the rest of the family benefits or will make changes too.
How are your children affected? Probably in ways you are not even aware of. Getting them talking about this and bringing out in the
open could prove to be healthy for them
Last edited by Spiritual Seeker; 06-17-2008 at 12:53 PM.
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