Hi and welcome verysad, I agree that if this is a problem to you that is enough! He will always play down how dependant he has become it is the alcoholics way.
Keep posting and reading (the sickies at the top of the forum page are very informative). Now is the time to heal you and your children, he will make hi sown choices irrespective of yours. Remeber the three C's
You didn't cause it
you can't control it
you cannot cure it.
Lily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx