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Old 06-11-2008, 02:36 AM
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SugarLily
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Hi Lovehim01

You've found a great place here. Please hang around.

No one here can tell you the future or what will happen, guidance, and personal experience though can help so much.

Being involved with an alcoholic is not easy. I can't stress that enough. My ex was 22 when we first got together. He was always a heavy drinker, I knew this from the start, but it snowballed through the years. I had to walk away. It was very difficult.

How long have you been with your boyfriend? As mentioned - only HE can help himself. This took me a long time to get my head around. I wanted to save him, I wanted to help him, I wanted to make him wake up...... I'm codependent.

Read all the material here. Try to shift your thinking to YOU. What do you want?

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