Just wanted to chime in again that my therapist gave me "homework" today to come up with a list of 5 characteristics that are MUST-HAVES for me in a person I want to have a future relationship with. I have a few already in mind that I feel strongly about and a few others that might make the list. As I was thinking of my list, not once did "handsome" or "perfect" come up. Of course I want someone that I'm attracted to but that is sooo relative to me and can mean sooo many things. I want HONESTY and LOYALTY and FAITHFULNESS. Those things come from the inside and are NOT reflected in a mirror.
Anyhoo...I thought of you when I realized it and wanted to come home and share that little tidbit with you. Hope you had fun tonight at your meeting and got a lot out of it!