I guess it all depends on what sort of drama it will create when she gets home. Are you doing this as a way to get her ticked off enough that she'll stop calling you? Or, do you think this is the best way to really truly just cut the strings so to speak? Obviously we don't know the whole story. And you know what's best in your particular situation. Just don't want you to trade one set of drama for another. Guess I'm not really one that would want to hide something like that but that's me and I don't know your situation. JMO. Hope you can work it out and get off the roller coaster.