It's a trust thing.
My wife hadn't been drunk for 5 weeks until yesterday. The forum has helped me undertsand how to control myself and that I have no control over her or her actions. The problem is the deceipt. She told me she only had one can but, as I am sure you know, it's easy to tell that was not true. She was not so drunk that she was not making sense and convinced me that there was no more drink in the house and that to show her some trust, I should go out to TKD as normal.
I did go out but not to the club. I told her I would be back early. Needless to say she was totally out of it by the time I got back.
I was gone for an hour and our 1 yr old boy was asleep when I left and when I got back. I worry for both of them while I am not there. There are together alone one day a week and this is the danger time. She goes to AA, has seen her GP and to be fair is a once in a while binge drinker.
Is there anything else I can do to help her, while not appearing controlling or untrusting?