(((Lita)))
He is going to blame you, because he's not ready to face reality. He's acting like a child, throwing a temper tantrum because he can't have his way.
I think Splendra's right...anger is just part of the process. What you are doing is absolutely right, IMO...you are protecting your child.
Unless it's absolutely necessary for you to have contact with him, I wouldn't.
Hugs and prayers!
Amy