Old 05-09-2008, 01:01 PM
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jackjack
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Thanks Cupicake. That is a good rule of thumb. And he is all about trying to make me feel guilty because that has always worked in the past, but now that I am working on myself I can see all the things that I was doing before that were making me feel horrible.

Not to be harsh about my stepkids, but I feel like they have two parents who are actively involved in their lives and the two of the need to make arrangements to care for them. I think what ticked me off was when he told me that his ex has said she had dinner plans that she would cancel in order to pick up her son but my husband said to me 'I don't really feel comfortable with that' and I was left feeling that it was okay for him to inconvenience me but not her??! Trust me, I will be bringing that one up in our therapy session next week!
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